Why do children go missing and what to do to prevent this from happening? Part 1
Who are rapists and child kidnappers? These are people who are unconsciously attracted to a child. Of course, here our imagination draws the image of an inhuman monster: well, would a normal person see a sexual object in a small defenseless child? Only non-humans! However, in life everything is not at all so or not quite so …
Where do children disappear
You walk down the street with your child, holding his tiny palm tightly in your hand. More than anything else, I want everything in his life to turn out perfectly, so that he would live a fulfilled, prosperous and happy life. Only no, no, but the needle of anxiety suddenly pricks the heart: how to preserve this fragile happiness, because the world around is full of dangers?..
Every day, children go missing in all corners of the world. They are kidnapped by criminals of all stripes - kidnappers for ransom, pedophiles for rape, pathological sadists for abuse and murder. And the thought that a child can be kidnapped at any time and given into slavery, including sexual slavery, is simply unbearable! It is hard to believe, but in our civilized world there is trafficking in children.
There are millions of missing children on the planet. According to the data of international human rights organizations, on average in Europe more than 70 thousand minors disappear annually, in Russia - about 55 thousand, in the USA - about 800 thousand. These figures are official data 1, unofficial ones are even more depressing. And every year there are more missing children …
From time to time, orientation announcements by themselves catch your eye - at a train station or in a social network feed: "A child is missing …" Your heart stops alarmingly, you squeeze the child's hand even tighter and don't let him go a step further.
The child grows up, and sooner or later the question arises of his independence and autonomy. Any adequate parent understands: a moment comes when the child needs to be given more freedom, only in this case he will develop psychologically and socially. If you continue to lead a teenager by the hand, you can grow a helpless social maladaptive.
There are no other people's children
A common man in the street does not know the world statistics of the disappearance of children. Therefore, the stories about the disappeared children sometimes cause distrust and seem to be just scary fairy tales that are inflated by the media. And it may seem that it certainly does not concern me, this will not happen to my child, because I am a good, responsible parent.
Moreover, today there are CCTV cameras everywhere in cities. Fenced and guarded playgrounds are being created in residential areas. Children are equipped with communication facilities, including the ability to determine the coordinates of their location. The schools have security guards. And yet the children continue to disappear. Without a trace. Forever and ever.
This means that neither efforts at the level of the family and even the state, nor preventive measures, nor forceful methods of struggle, guarantee one hundred percent safety of children. You can close your eyes to the truth as much as you like and indulge yourself with illusions. But it is absolutely necessary to come to an understanding of the harsh reality: no one is immune from this!
Today everyone should be aware of the problem, because only all together, united, we can do something - organize the search for the missing child, provide a collective security system, being vigilant not only in relation to our own children, but to all children without exception. And in the future, we must learn to prevent such crimes before they are committed.
To do this, we need to at least understand the problem. Do not just fear for your children and lament the tragic fate of the missing children, but take very specific steps that will ultimately help to change the current depressing situation. Fear is a bad helper, it paralyzes and deprives you of the strength to act. And in order to stop being afraid and to know from whom to defend oneself, one must understand the psychology of crime - to understand the motives of the criminal, to look into his psyche.
But how can you understand this horror and understand what exactly is happening? Who can explain this? Today, clear answers to these painful, difficult questions are given only by modern psychoanalysis - the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan. So let's look at common knowledge from a new angle. After all, we really need an answer to this vital question!
Who kidnaps children to get money
The idea of kidnapping a child in order to obtain a ransom from his loved ones or to sell him can only arise from the owner of a skin vector in the worst condition. For such a person, material benefit is above all, and he does not care about moral laws and the Criminal Code.
In a developed and realized state, the owner of the skin vector is a businessman, engineer or lawmaker. But beaten or humiliated in childhood, such a leatherman stops developing and does not know how to realize his aspirations for success and prosperity in a legal way. Therefore, he can become either a pathological loser, or a swindler and a thief, causing significant damage to society by his illegal actions.
Dexterous and cunning, he will watch for a defenseless child on a social network or in a gateway. You can't pity that. He will not be tormented by remorse. I got my money and forgot. The fate of the child does not bother him at all.
How to recognize a rapist
Can you recognize a man who has an irresistible attraction to a child? Recognize in advance - before committing a crime? An ordinary person is not capable of this. Nor will a professional be able to do this - an employee of the internal affairs bodies or a psychiatrist. And only the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan gives us this recognition tool - systemic thinking.
Unconscious attraction to a child can only be experienced by the owner of the anal vector in a state of prolonged sexual frustration. Our imagination draws the image of an inhuman monster: well, would a normal person see a sexual object in a small defenseless child? Only non-humans! However, in life everything is not at all so or not quite so. Outwardly, it can be quite a pleasant person in communication, arousing sympathy and even trust, especially if it has an anal-visual ligament of vectors.
The anal-visual pedophile can easily get into the trust of the child. This is a subtle tempter, capable of luring, seducing. Often this is a person from the child's environment - a neighbor, a relative, or even a teacher. Thanks to the presence of a visual vector, he creates an emotional connection with his future victim.
An example of such a pedophile is very realistically shown in the TV series "Method": the head of a tourist club in the house of pioneers who loved his wards and went on hikes with them. And at the same time, one by one, he lured his students, first threw a noose around his neck (so that the boy would lose consciousness from suffocation and would not remember anything, however, very few people survived after this) and raped.
No parent ever thought anything bad of him. This went on for many years. The result is a small secret cemetery. It is disgusting to watch how, after committing a crime, he bitterly cries over the lifeless body of his next victim.
How to recognize a torturer and murderer
If a frustrated man with an anal vector does not have a visual vector, he can become a cruel sadist. Such a person takes pleasure in torturing, torturing, killing. He can direct this irresistible desire to the child due to the fact that children are defenseless and cannot resist. But more often there is a combination of "two in one" - sadism and pedophilia.
It should be remembered that children of both sexes are not protected from sexual abuse - neither boys nor girls. In the psyche of a man with an anal vector by nature itself, there is an attraction to boys. A taboo was immediately imposed on it, and it sublimated into a desire to teach and pass on your experience and knowledge to children. In a developed and realized state, men with an anal vector become teachers, teachers who, with sincere interest, instill in the younger generation a love for physics, mathematics, astronomy. And in a state of frustration, tension can break through the taboo, and men begin to experience sexual attraction to boys.
However, if inside there is a strong taboo on same-sex sexual intercourse (which does not lead to reproduction - therefore, it is forbidden by nature itself), such a man can switch to a girl. Relationship with a girl is also prohibited by the taboo system (she has not yet matured - she cannot give birth and care for a child), but often this taboo is easier to break, especially in the conditions of our Russian mentality, which does not recognize same-sex relationships.
Pedophile - the path to crime without punishment
Where do such monsters come from? After all, we are all born innocent babies, but at the same time good people grow out of some, useful members of society, while others destroy our society …
The reasons for many actions of adults can be found in early childhood. In order for a child to grow up as a normal person, he must be allowed to develop. To do this, it is necessary to clearly understand the features of the child's mental structure - his vector.
So, a child with a skin vector cannot be beat and humiliated. If a child has an anal vector, he should not be rushed, ripped off the pot, it is important to help him learn to finish what he started, praise for his efforts - only in this case he will be able to study well and teach others in the future, become a real professional in his field, a better husband and father. If you do everything the other way around, you already know what it can turn into …
Unfortunately, too often in life everything does not happen in the best way for the child, but how it turns out. Not understanding the peculiarities of the psyche of their child, parents sometimes commit tragic mistakes in his upbringing. Oh, if they only knew how it could end!
I must say that the transformation into a pedophile does not happen immediately, but gradually. And usually at first a man is very scared of such desires, tries to suppress them in himself, long and painfully struggles with himself. But once it arises, the attraction to the child only grows and at a certain moment it becomes irresistible. In the fight against forbidden desires (often unconscious), a man may start drinking. Streams of verbal filth and physical sadism are one of the clear markers of severe sexual frustration, which sooner or later can lead to a crime.
What happens after an act of violence? The basic need for any person is to preserve themselves. Immediately after the commission of a crime, the pedophile's brain biochemistry instantly changes. He is overwhelmed by the horror of what he has done. And from that moment on, the main goal is to save oneself, that is, to do everything to avoid punishment. To cover his tracks, he kills his little victim …
Psychopathic maniacs among us
In psychiatry and forensic science, you can find a mention that the percentage of psychopathologies in the human population at all times remains approximately the same (however, the data on the number of psychopaths from the total population in different sources do not coincide - they range from 1% to 6%) … In the previous anal phase of human development, this may have been true.
But today we are living in the cutaneous phase, which is characterized by rapid changes, primarily in the field of technology. The world around us is changing before our eyes, and the pace of life is accelerating day by day. We can say that during the life of just one generation we found ourselves in a completely different world. And the trouble is that not everyone in this world was able to adapt.
It was the people with the anal vector who, on the one hand, are characterized by love for the past and traditions, a leisurely rhythm of life, and on the other hand, in the presence of frustrations, a tendency to violence arises worst of all.
Their psyche is rigid, they cannot boast of mobile thinking. Many cannot withstand the pressure of time, modern speeds. When you cannot satisfy your desires for a long time, dissatisfaction and tension build up, which inevitably translate into social and sexual frustration. It is due to their increase that there is an increase in crimes against children in our time.
How can this be verified? After all, quite normal-looking people walk along the street. It is possible to determine the psyche of people (especially BEFORE the crime is committed, and not after) using the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan. We can personally observe the manifestations of frustration in the anal vector by the growth of aggression in society and trolling on the Runet. Criticism of everything and everyone, foul language and toilet vocabulary are all painfully familiar symptoms. The manifestation of domestic violence - beating of wives and children, verbal sadism - has reached catastrophic proportions in modern Russia.
And of course, the statistics of missing, raped and murdered children, which are growing inexorably, speaks for themselves. And only with the knowledge of system-vector psychology, a real picture of what is happening is revealed - we become able to see reality as it really is. And having realized the scale of the social catastrophe that we are forced to observe in real time, we must come to the only correct thought: only by uniting, we can resist the threat, protect children. After all, children are our future, we must not let it be destroyed. There cannot be children of ours and others - all are OUR children!
Part 2. It is impossible to be happy alone
