Gambling addiction: what are we looking for in the virtual world?
The psyche of any of us is designed in such a way that we strive for pleasure, the realization of our desires and want to avoid suffering. It is impossible to take away from a person that which makes him even a little bit happier, more joyful. Therefore, no one, even the closest ones, manages to snatch this coveted "gingerbread" from the hands of someone who is dependent on online games or other forms of play. Then what to do?
Thoughts are filled with it. They are in a hurry to her, desired and attracted - someone after a hard day's work, and someone instead of work. In her arms everyone finds something of their own: oblivion from senseless vanity and difficult conditions, long-forgotten excitement and enthusiasm of life, vivid emotions and even a way to earn extra money.
All this is about her - the many-sided Game.
Why is she so attracted? Why is a person unable to refuse it, even when relatives and friends are already insisting on the treatment of addiction to computer games? The answer is given by the training "System-vector psychology".
Life in Augmented Reality
The Internet has become another additional reality for people. On the World Wide Web, we get to know each other and communicate, find a mate and work - everything is like in life. But each of us adapts this new, virtual world in different ways. It depends on the psychological state of the person. Computer addiction, like any type of addiction, does not occur for everyone.
When all is well, we realize ourselves equally well both in the main and in the additional reality. But it happens that in the real world, a person fails to feel completely happy and realize his desires.
For example, achieve ambitious goals and enjoy success. Be the center of attention and experience vivid emotions. And sometimes life is perceived as completely meaningless and hopeless. And the virtual world becomes the only loophole where you can escape from the unbearable reality and your own difficult conditions.
Gambling addiction to computer games is the result of the fact that we do not experience pleasure and joy over a long distance. We do not achieve what we want. Or we even experience severe depression, lose the meaning of life. The game manages to at least partially, at least for a short while, make up for these shortages.
The psyche of any of us is designed in such a way that we strive for pleasure, the realization of our desires and want to avoid suffering. It is impossible to take away from a person that which makes him even a little bit happier, more joyful. Therefore, no one, even the closest ones, manages to snatch this coveted "gingerbread" from the hands of someone who is dependent on online games or other forms of play. Then what to do?
There is only one alternative - a happier life in the real world.
It is realistic to achieve it when a person realizes and realizes the desires that drive him. Reveals and removes all the obstacles that hinder their embodiment. This brings great joy in life, incredible pleasure, the ability to "live excitedly" and truly achieve what you want. Here's what those who have already succeeded say about it:
When a person is happy and successful in life, the Internet and the computer become just tools with which one can make the "geography" of his successes and achievements even wider. But how to get a bird of happiness in life - the training of Yuri Burlan will tell you.
Excitement, courage, adrenaline
The desires that live with us are different. They depend on the innate properties that are given to man by nature. For example, the owners of the skin vector are characterized by such qualities as ambitiousness, competitiveness, a desire to be the first and to reach the top. Such a person will strive up the career ladder, desire high income and social status. He can realize himself in competitive sports - where there is an element of competition, where you can "catch up and overtake".
It is such a person who can develop gambling addiction as such. In this case, it is not necessarily associated with computers.
The owners of the skin vector were fond of gambling of any kind long before the advent of the Internet and online games. For example, they squandered fortunes while playing cards. They carried the latter from home - to the halls of slot machines or to the casino.
A special term was even introduced - gambling addiction or gambling addiction. It denoted a painful, pathological attraction to the game. Signs and symptoms of it were considered a person's dependence on games, the desire to devote all their free time to them and spend any means on it. And although gambling addiction was included in the classifier of diseases as a disease, effective methods of treatment have not been found. No one has given an answer on how to treat gambling addiction with a guaranteed result.
Yuri Burlan's training gives a steady result in this area, as it reveals the reasons why carriers of the skin vector can become addicted to games. This happens when a person, due to certain circumstances, cannot realize his natural properties, for example:
- Busy with routine work, to which the soul does not lie at all. I want changes, constant changes, novelty, excitement. But they cannot be obtained in real life.
- Cannot realize in reality his desire to compete, compete, be the first. But it takes away the soul in gambling.
- Not able to earn enough to feel comfortable. And the coveted jackpot in the game for money attracts and attracts. Get everything at once, save time - what could be more attractive?
- Carries psychotrauma from childhood - a loser complex. It is formed when an ambitious child is humiliated. In this case, consciously striving for success, a person is unconsciously doomed to failure. Even if he makes every effort, for some unknown reason everything “breaks down” and “does not add up”. For such people, play becomes, on the one hand, an alluring opportunity for achievement, and on the other hand, it realizes a person's unconscious need for failure.
These are just a few examples. There can be many reasons, and their depth is different. The training "System-vector psychology" gives the result to a person with such a problem. As a result, he becomes able to realize his true desires and receive from life what he lacked.
When computer addiction is an escape from yourself
With the advent of computers and social networks, games also migrated to an alternate reality. Today not only people with a skin vector are fond of them. A particular difficulty in how to get rid of addiction to computer games is experienced by people with the properties of the sound vector of the psyche.
It is they who initially become the creators of the virtual world: programmers, IT specialists. Uncommunicative, self-absorbed people. Often unsmiling, they can have serious problems making live contact with others. It is often much easier for such a person to get along with an electronic machine than with others.
There are deep reasons for this. Sound specialists are endowed with especially sensitive hearing. Moreover, they negatively perceive not only increased volume (shouting, loud music), but are also susceptible to meanings. It is not easy for them in our world: sounds that seem normal to others deafen the sound engineer, make them withdraw into themselves. And the negativity, which abounds in the speech of others, completes the picture. Whether it's the silence when there is only you and the screen opposite.
Unconsciously, by nature, the sound engineer strives to find the meaning of life, to reveal the structure of being. When this does not work out, the person withdraws into himself, moves away from the world, which seems meaningless and empty. The interests of others are stupid and mundane. The inner pain of the soul is growing, from which a person hides in a computer.
The consequences of dependence on computer games for a sound engineer can become the most dire. Not filling the deep desire for knowledge, he has involuntary thoughts: “Why live? Life has no meaning. For some time he can hide from this in the virtual world, but grave conditions take their toll. Loved ones become anxious, looking for various addiction treatments - for example, cognitive behavioral therapy to help a person change their way of thinking. But this does nothing - it is impossible to force yourself to think about good when you are deeply unhappy, and often you do not even realize why. Later, antidepressant treatment is included - but they also do not cure the pain of the soul.
In order for the problem to be truly solved, the sound engineer needs to fill his natural desire to search for the meaning of life, to understand the cause-and-effect relationships that govern our reality. This becomes possible through the disclosure of the structure of our psyche, the forces that animate the material world. There is no greater happiness on earth for the sound engineer who managed to reveal this.
Other causes of gambling addiction
Carriers of the visual vector receive special experiences from a computer game. They are emotional, impressionable people, able to live different feelings vividly and deeply. Realized owners of such properties are wonderful actors, capable of reincarnating and literally living through themselves the image and experiences of any character. When such realization is not enough, in the game they find the opportunity to be an elven princess, a fearless warrior or an all-powerful fairy, to realize any fictional image. It happens that in life such a person suffers from shyness. And in a game where no one sees or knows you, you can be confident and daring, strong and bright.
Their particularly sensitive vision perceives many shades of light and color. Such a person is capable of becoming an excellent designer, artist, video engineer. But when there is a shortage in the implementation, there is a desire to constantly change the picture in the game. To enjoy images that someone else has already created. A mysterious, twilight forest … magical fairies and creepy orcs, dumpy gnomes and elves-minstrels … For an emotional viewer, this is also a reason to tickle the nerves, experience vivid emotions that are lacking in reality.
Computer addiction is especially stable among carriers of the anal vector. They are natural couch potatoes, inclined to spend their leisure time sitting on a couch or in an armchair. With the advent of computers, rest at the monitor screen becomes a part of their life. The psyche of such people is prone to the formation of rituals and habits. And getting rid of them later is not so easy.
Addiction to online games occurs in such people when they experience long-term social or sexual frustrations and shortages. The accumulated aggression and dislike can be thrown off in the "shooter". There, among comrades in arms, you can get respect and honor for merit - when in real life this is so lacking.
Today, addiction to computer games is common among teenagers. Children do not want to study, do not aspire to become astronauts, researchers, engineers or scientists. Instead, they want fun, entertainment, games. Why?
The global reason is that children are watching us adults as a visual demonstration of adult life. Sad and barely trudging home after work. Joyless and lethargic, capable only of rest at the "box". Unconsciously, through us, the child feels adult life as an unbearable hard labor. Therefore, he does not at all strive to realize his talents constructively for the good of society in useful activities.
Yuri Burlan's training helps a person with any mental properties to reveal their unique talents, to reveal unprecedented inner energy and desire to live, create, create. To bring good to society and get happiness for yourself. This radically changes the fate of adults and the future of our children. For 12 sessions in a webinar format, being anywhere in the world, you can change your life once and for all. Join the free online training.
