The psychology of life. Why do others get mine?
“Well, what am I doing wrong? Why can't I achieve what I want? Why was he lucky again? Why am I unlucky? When we are looking for answers in books on psychology, when we attend all the new psychological courses, we are looking for something, we think, we are again choked with bewilderment.
It seems quite logical to ask why, out of all the variety of courses in psychology, socially oriented psychological trainings, the abundance of various psychological and esoteric exercises, should you choose us?
Before giving the dotted lines of the developments that laid the foundation for the training by Yuri Burlan "System-vector psychology", and highlight the foundations of the method; Before talking about the fact that he became an absolute breakthrough in the traditional view of psychology, let's try to remember the dreary feeling of disappointment that bursts out with questions to nowhere whenever the events of our life abruptly turn off the path we have planned.
“Well, what am I doing wrong? Why can't I achieve what I want? What does someone achieve? Why was he lucky again? Why am I unlucky?"
When we look for answers to them in books on psychology, when we attend all the new psychological courses, we look for something, think and again we are choked with bewilderment:
"I can't understand how he could … If I were in his place I would never have done this … Well, why doesn't he understand me?.. Why can't he live like me?.. Why can't I understand him?.."
When we start to fear that psychology will never be able to explain the series of betrayals and disappointments that haunt us, poisoning our lives with a feeling of complete helplessness:
"Are all women really like that (…)?"
"Are all men really like that (…)?"
“Is this really my child? For example, I was not like that …"
When we attend psychological trainings that promise in vain to help overcome the obstacle course of mistakes, misunderstandings and accidents. When, from confusion and powerlessness, we are overwhelmed by the soundless rumbling of a deep, piercing cry:
"I want to be happy! Why can't I get it? I want to be happy! Why can't I do it? I want to be happy! Why doesn't God hear me?"
“I want love! I want to love! I want to be loved! I want to! I want to! I want to!"
“What am I living for? What's the point? What does my life mean? What does I mean? What does Death mean?"
You can't dismiss these thoughts with a folded magazine while you're finishing your coffee early in the morning. You will not drive them away with the brightest entertainments that the frenzied city promises at nightfall. You cannot persuade by deeds and worries, on which we spend minutes, days and months and which we cannot remember afterwards - they are so one-sided and vain. Circumstances will change, we will gain experience and hope in vain that we have learned to understand people. We will look for lectures on psychology, trainings for success, all kinds of psychological courses that promise to help us succeed. We will swear to ourselves not to step on the rake of betrayal, disappointment, missed opportunities, wasted energy, feelings, time. Let's try to live differently, try to turn the page and start from scratch. In a new way. In new circumstances and with new people. With a full arsenal of psychological techniques and developments, as well as the experience of past mistakes and conclusions. And now, at the intersection of completely different stories, a familiar, aching feeling catches up with an echo - outbreaks of doubts and questions appear. And these questions are still the same:
“Why doesn't he understand this?.. I never would have thought that he could do that! With me!.. I would never have done that!.. I didn’t expect this from him!.. I didn’t expect this from myself!.."
The training "System-vector psychology" by Yuri Burlan helps to look at ourselves and for the first time to understand why we have what we have. Without excuses and excuses, without regrets about how the circumstances for some reason did not work out. To understand why the desired remains inaccessible to us. Why are these people around us - to understand who they are, what they think, why are they? Understand those with whom we live. Understand why our life is so …
Well, of course, there is another way of looking at things.
There is nothing so terrible in our life … It's not that everything was really quite like that, there is a lot of good things in it … well, something didn't work out somewhere, but maybe … someday … suddenly … and in the end, everything cannot work out …
Well, let's be honest with ourselves - we didn't want THIS. And we feel this every time we look at our old photographs, where we see completely different eyes and faces, looking at which it is somehow a shame to justify that everything would have worked out, but life was against … Life is always for!
After all, we feel that we were created for something completely different. At least, this is what we expected. They waited from those who were nearby, wondering how they behaved at the most important moments - if we were in their place, everything would definitely turn out the way it should. But no! There are no accidents - all the disappointments that settle in our thoughts as a difficult and sad experience that will not help in the future; all partings and betrayals that we eventually seal in stamps in order to indiscriminately put them on new opportunities and meetings - all this is only the result of our thoughts, actions and decisions. And it is with them that changes for the better will begin, to what we already cease to hope for. To understand is to realize the reason that did not allow you to receive from life exactly what you wanted so much, to eliminate it - to replace it withwhich will lead to results that are astounding and beyond your head.
Read more about the results of those trained here
It seems to us habitual to perceive everything that happens around, through ourselves: through our own ideas about good and bad, through priorities and life values that are in tune with us. Hence the lack of understanding of the actions, reactions and thoughts of others, and even one's own manifestations sometimes make one wonder and not recognize oneself. But after all, something guides each person, something determines his desires, which form certain thoughts that have found expression precisely in these actions. Something lives on for them. Just like us. To understand what it is, to interact with this, and not with the person himself, who even cannot explain to himself why he acts this way and not otherwise - this is what system knowledge teaches. It teaches to understand each person not through themselves, but through their value systems, through the unconscious processes that live for them.
The training "System-Vector Psychology" puts a fundamentally new thinking, provides effective tools in order to apply them, changing and transforming your life, but, above all, psychological training makes it possible to feel free. For real. Free from the notions with which we drive ourselves into the framework of a dull, monochrome life. In those frameworks that do not contain the true volumetric picture of everything that happens to us. The training provides an opportunity to learn to understand what is happening around, to stop looking at people and situations in the keyhole of our own beliefs, to stop squinting and peeping at life, thinking that this is our point of view. Yuri Burlan's lectures do not cut holes in this wall, they do not help to find an opportunity to settle in so that it is more convenient to observe, they demolish the wall,that separates us from life. From the very life that was promised and presented to us for realization, joy and happiness, but which we do not see - because we do not know where to look.
The training "System-vector psychology" is a new volumetric thinking, a new understanding of everything that is happening around, it provides the necessary tools to everyone who wants to change something and get something out of life. What do you want?
- Be in love? Build the relationships that give you the greatest pleasure of all that life promises? Know who to love? Who will respond to your feeling and who will never appreciate it? From the first meeting, see all the perspectives and options for the development of your possible story and know in advance what to do in order for it to continue in the most desirable way for you?
- To be held in a profession? Realize your ambitions and aspirations to the fullest? To develop and provide the properties and capabilities specified for you? Understand your role, your mission? Change your life scenario?
- Understand those around you? See the unconscious processes that determine their thoughts and actions? Learn to interact with them, which means always know what a person thinks about, what he really means when uttering certain phrases, is he honest, what are his true intentions and motives? Know what to expect from him, how he can act in a given situation? In short, to know more about any complete stranger than the people closest to him know, and even more than he knows about himself?
Answering questions that haunt and whine with a sense of melancholy and meaninglessness as we serve our prison in everyday reality, trying to distract ourselves from playing a life that helps others, but not us? To those questions, the answers to which are nowhere to be found: “Why do I live? For what? What does my life mean? What is its meaning? What do I mean?"
There will be no other chance to find out, just as there will be no other life. It should not be lost and wasted - the days fly by, time is running out. The easiest way to dismiss it, saying to yourself that nothing can be changed, that training in psychology can never really affect something - but is it really easier for someone?
Is it really not easier to take and live a real, filled life, which with every line, every bend will bring happiness and joy?.. Is it really easier and more pleasant to humbly receive slaps in the face at every new turn of your path and cherish claims to fate easier and more pleasant than trying to find out that exactly offers a systemic vision and yourself to check the effectiveness of the proposed method?
We will always be able to find thousands of excuses in order to think once again, wait, wait - again put off life for later.
- No financial opportunity? ? - We offer to take three lectures on psychology absolutely free.
- Not enough time? - trainings take place in the evening online - you don't even need to leave your home. To start changing something in your life, you just need to visit the site once, sacrificing watching the evening news or one of the phone conversations. Sitting in an armchair in front of the monitor, you not only can listen to a lecture on psychology absolutely free of charge, you have the opportunity to ask your questions and judge how legitimate conversations about the effectiveness and uniqueness of psychological training are based on the answers you have heard, which means that you can form an opinion based not on forebodings and reflections, but on their own experience. / li>
What other rationalizations can we come up with to postpone this possibility? To undergo training not now, but after a vacation or New Year, or in another life? Let this one go on like that, but let's start the next one with a clean slate?
There is nothing sadder than a lost life. The one that was given to us for something. And until we know why, until we get joy from her, it is wasted.
If not now, then when?
It is very frustrating not to allow yourself to register for a free psychology training.
