How to get an orgasm during sex - three ingredients for female pleasure
Usually we are fixated on ourselves. We are only concerned with the question of how to get pleasure, orgasm for ourselves. And he already feels good, his orgasm during sex is guaranteed. But a couple is two. We want a “half”, which means we can create a whole, paying attention not only to our needs.
Do you like bad food? When there is no pleasure, just satiety. Sex without orgasm is perceived by a modern woman in about the same way. It seems like I ate, but I still want something tasty. How to learn to build intimate relationships in the best way? How to get an orgasm during sex?
Where a woman should direct her efforts in paired relationships and get an orgasm is precisely determined at the training System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.
To know how to get an orgasm during sex, we will understand its nature and draw up a recipe for the preparation of constant female pleasure.
Ingredient 1 - an emotional bond between partners
How to get an orgasm for a girl during sex? Emotional connection is the ideal and maximum predisposition for a woman to have an orgasm.
To achieve physical pleasure - orgasm - a woman needs to get closer to her partner and soul, to create a sensual connection in a couple. Love is the work of the soul of two, which begins with feminine frankness. System-vector psychology reveals in detail that an emotional connection is established by a word.
You need to talk with him, share intimate feelings, worry, read the love letters of the classics with him, live the childhood joys and sorrows of both, dream together.
Gradually, reverently and carefully, let him in on an emotional level. Then physical intimacy will give a woman tremendous pleasure, she will know how to always get an orgasm during sex.
After sex with a loving and beloved woman, a man does not want to connect with others, because each of us always prefers more pleasure to less.
Tips on how to build a joint bond and experience vivid orgasms, here.
Ingredient 2 - freedom from anchors and clamps: what's stopping you from relaxing?
It happens that masturbation brings orgasms, but sex with a loved one does not. Why doesn't a woman get an orgasm during sex? False attitudes and psychological anchors can be the reason.
The main problems that prevent a woman from relaxing and having an orgasm:
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false shame;
In feminine nature is inherent bashfulness, that is, a reduction in sexual behavior. She does not provoke all men with the scent (except for one special woman), otherwise the men would have killed each other in the struggle for her attention. This is a natural logic that preserves the look.
But misinterpreted religious dogmas have shifted shame from the social plane to the intimate plane. There was a false attitude towards the sinfulness of intercourse as such. In fact, in a couple, when the curtain closes for prying eyes, there is nothing shameful anymore. There is only a desire to achieve mutual pleasure. More on this in the article.
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mat trauma;
Mat is always about sex. With children, these words should not be used in principle, especially by parents. This is psychological incest. If a little girl grew up in an environment where mat was used as an adult woman, she may experience unconscious terror, disgust and rejection of sexual relations. This leads to an inability to achieve pleasure from intimacy in the future. But this can be corrected by systemic psychoanalysis.
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force-feeding.
Both food and sex are ways to get the most out of your sense of life. Man lives according to the principle of pleasure. He knows what makes him feel good, and strives for it. Perfectly.
But often we get traumatized by force-feeding in childhood - we are forced to eat without appetite, forcibly shove in something nasty: boiled onions, semolina with lumps, soup with fat … Every unfortunate woman can make her own list of nauseous muck. Then, instead of delight from receiving food, a destructive mechanism of life perception is laid - “I don’t want!”. They give me something, but they won't get into me. Food, life, pleasure. It is this anchor that prevents many women from having an orgasm. How to be? With the help of realizing this mechanism at the training of Yuri Burlan, learn to enjoy life in general and sex in particular.
A woman experiences an orgasm when she surrenders to the arms of her beloved, and is not constrained by chains of false attitudes and painful childhood memories. If something is still holding you back from enjoyment, read the revelations of women after the System Vector Psychology training. Their sex life was filled with pleasure, which means that yours too can:
Ingredient 3 - your pleasure = my pleasure
Usually we are fixated on ourselves. We are only concerned with the question of how to get pleasure, orgasm for ourselves. And he already feels good, his orgasm during sex is guaranteed. But a couple is two. We want a “half”, which means we can create a whole, paying attention not only to our needs.
After all, a male orgasm can be more intense, more powerful, more incredible. Just ask yourself: does he feel good with me? Can I hear it, can I feel it? What can I do to make him feel good? The desire to give pleasure to a loved one allows you to throw off the shackles of tension, false shame, fear of not being liked.
How to get an orgasm for a woman - instruction for two
One of the ways to please a man is to allow him to deliver an orgasm to his beloved woman.
The man considers the orgasm of a woman to be his merit. He is glad and proud if he managed to bring his beloved to the peak of pleasure. Knowing exactly her sexual characteristics, a woman can subtly direct a man to their satisfaction and thus give both maximum pleasure to each other and an incredible orgasm.
Sometimes we are embarrassed to say what we would like in sex. This problem is solved by building trust and emotional connection. And sometimes we ourselves simply do not know what exactly will bring us more pleasure and orgasm.
Yuri Burlan's System-Vector Psychology training will show a woman her especially sensitive buttons and help her tell her partner what will lead her to a bright orgasm.
- A dermal woman is especially excited by affectionate strokes, massage, gentle hugs, oral sex. Active, fast and flexible women can be brought closer to orgasm by any changes in the intimate sphere: an unusual position, a kitchen table instead of a bed, morning instead of evening … She loves clarity and speed, so her orgasm (more often clitoral) with an accurate approach to her will not force herself wait.
- A woman's orgasm with an anal vector requires a more thorough approach. A powerful libido in her is combined with adherence to tradition and shyness. Innovations are contraindicated. Gradual closeness, long foreplay, a conservative approach (at least at the beginning of a relationship) and stability - these factors are the basis for such a woman to be able to relax and have an orgasm (usually vaginal). And what else a woman with an anal vector might like, the two will reveal together when the foundation of a trusting and reliable relationship is laid in the couple.
The type of intelligence, oddly enough, also affects our sexuality. So, a certain situation and behavior of a partner excites us depending on our vector features.
The erotica of the visual vector is beauty. Subdued light, delicate linen, scented candles, flowers, love poems, the setting sun and other romantic attributes contribute to women with a visual vector to get an orgasm.
Does a sound girl never care about orgasm? Indifference to everything material, including one's own body, asexuality, apathy - this is how a woman with a sound vector manifests herself in bad conditions. At the training System Vector Psychology, her depression recedes, and desires awaken. Her body is also awakening from the hibernation of nothingness. But the sound “star” needs a special approach. Few people know how to stimulate her erogenous zone - the brain. "Tickle" her mind with meanings, a low whisper - and the sexuality of a seemingly cold woman will cosmically open up for her beloved.
A modern woman should know not only her preferences in bed, but also be aware of the sexual characteristics of her man. His intimate fantasies are revealed during the training in their entire range. And then a woman learns to deliver a man not an everyday orgasm, but a dizzying, incomparable pleasure from intimacy. This allows her to have an orgasm more often during sex.
Fusion on the mental and physical level is achieved in a couple when we are sincerely interested in and caring for a partner. He is focused on her, and she is on him. This is a relationship of endless pleasure.
Let yourself learn more about sexuality at the free training "System-vector psychology".
