At the back of the new Russia. Poor Children 2013
Why is it so important to provide a sense of security for the child in raising children? Because the included self-preservation program in the endangered child will no longer provide an opportunity to develop. The mechanism is simple …
Very few people follow the natural processes of human development - the change of eras, the change in relations that are taking place with us. Even fewer people understand these processes. For more than half a century, the values of the bygone anal phase of development have been destroyed, and together with its completion we are witnessing the collapse of the institution of marriage, the blurring of boundaries between nationalities and the gradual departure of religions. And in Russia, with the loss of the urethral social formation - the USSR, which was so consonant with the urethral mentality of our multinational country, we especially acutely feel the breakdown of social and social ties between people, the disappearance of the priority of the general over the personal.
Today we live in the absence of new social ideas and outstanding personalities. There is a division of society into individuality and at the same time we are overwhelmed by globalization, standardization, mixing of peoples, nations, borders. Everyone feels the powerful influence of the value systems of the new skin era: irresistible desires for material prosperity, success at any cost, social superiority and unlimited material opportunities. A tragic upheaval in consciousness took place, and a huge gap in the systems of former and present values disorientated us.
In this regard, we have confused the concepts of Good and Evil, they leave the guidelines of the world outlook of the older generation and do not appear at all in children born in the post-perestroika period in Russia.
Children of orphanages and the mentality of Russia
The skin vector of Russians, which does not have the opportunity to develop in combination of the urethral-muscular mentality with the skin phase of development, like the skin phase itself, divides, destroys the remnants of unity between people. The personal becomes more important than the general. Everyone - for himself, for himself and for himself. The gap between generations is growing in leaps and bounds, and soon these ties will no longer be possible to restore. And we must pass on to the next generation a lot to preserve the integrity of society and its development. If we cannot transfer, Russia will be destroyed from within.
Against this background, it becomes clear where the problem of orphans came from in a peaceful country. Only the main problem is not how these children feel today, not how they suffer from a lack of a normal attitude, a lack of the simplest things, a normal education and upbringing. And not even that leaving the orphanage as socially unadapted, they are forced to engage in theft and prostitution. This is the tragedy of one life. But the most important thing is that, whether we realize it or not, it is a tragedy and a threat to the entire society.
Orphans in modern Russian orphanages are a marginal, unadapted part of society. These are potential and real criminals who will come out tomorrow with their views and beliefs into big life. Various official sources cite statistics that the number of children in an acutely disadvantaged situation ranges from 700 thousand to 4 million. According to the Prosecutor General's Office of the Russian Federation, 10% of the total number of graduates of orphanages become suicides, another 40% are alcoholics and drug addicts, 40% are engaged in criminal activities, and only 10% fully adapt to life outside the orphanage. Such statistics cannot leave us indifferent.
A child in an orphanage - a stamp on fate?
Why do they become criminals, is it possible to raise and educate these children as full-fledged members of society under existing conditions?
The process of personality formation and development occurs only in childhood, when adults provide the child with a sense of security, balance between his inner mental state and the outside world. For example, a child who grew up in not very favorable material conditions, but in a sense of security, psychological comfort, remembers his childhood as happy. And on the contrary, a person who grew up with complete material well-being, but does not receive an emotional connection with his parents, who has been subjected to violence, humiliation, threats, endures resentments, fears, a sense of his inferiority and inferiority from childhood. In most cases, as a result of such an impact, they forever remain in archetypal forms of behavior, many of which in the modern world are prohibited by both law and culture.
In our orphanages, these children are not given an inner sense of safety and security. By and large, no one needs them there. In an orphanage, their daily feelings are fear, feelings of injustice, resentment, envy, and anger. They are being tested by the enormous pressure of disorder, aggression and indifference on the part of educators, the need to survive within the team. How to maintain your physical and mental integrity under such pressure? To survive, you must take responsibility for your life ahead of time, not yet ripe before that. In ordinary children, this occurs at the age of 12-15, after the passage of puberty. Their innate mental properties have time to develop. However, there is no time for development here. We must survive. In order to survive, nature includes an early self-preservation program in every child. This is how crime is born in orphanages.
In adverse conditions, the skin child becomes a thief and robber, a liar and a swindler. Anal - a sadist, a rapist, a muddy man, trying to dirty the world around him verbally and physically, a hater of women, and at its peak - a potential pedophile. The urethral child, in the absence of a developed skin-visual female educator and constant pressure from the educators, goes into isolation from society by creating his own gang or becomes a lone wolf. Muscular children, without developing, become ready-made killers, gather in an army, which will, under the leadership of archetypal skin or urethral leaders, kill and rape. The upper vectors give direction to the listed terrible tendencies: oral will allow the fraudster to gain confidence in anyone, sound will add cruelty, indifference and ideological justification of all cruelty,the visual will make the victim of archetypal orphanage children or sadistic educators.
Orphanages must live in safety
Why is it so important to provide a sense of security for the child in raising children? Because the included self-preservation program in the endangered child will no longer provide an opportunity to develop. The mechanism is simple: they scolded, spanked a skin child for some kind of offense, and he, upset, went and took money from your wallet, a beautiful lighter from your uncle's pocket, or a ring from your aunt's casket. And suddenly he felt a great warm joy from owning, in fact, an unnecessary object. The next day he will be caught, punished again, and he will again quietly take a chocolate bar from the counter and experience the already familiar pleasure. He does not understand what is happening to him, does not analyze. But after the next punishment, his dexterous hands themselves reach for the protruding pocket of a passer-by or for the teacher's portfolio left unattended.
This is how the program of the skin alimentary-getter begins to work prematurely, the child himself cannot refuse to fulfill it under existing conditions. He will not be able to give up the pleasure of stealing in favor of developing self-discipline, training the ability to logically solve complex problems, which could be development for him. He will not be able to work hard to learn to go towards important goals for society, unless he is aware of what is happening to him.
Graduates of orphanages, who will help you?
The scale of the catastrophe happening to children deprived of adult protection is obvious. The number of orphans in Russia against the background of the expected demographic hole in 2020-2025 looks especially frightening. What is the future for Russia, coupled with other problems? And what is our role in this process? Is there anything else we can do? Or is Russia fatally prepared for a fate without the right to choose?
In fact, there is no fatalism, no prepared fate. There is a new skin era of development, and according to its laws, the rise and transition to a new level of development can begin only from below, through each member of society. The time of personality in history is over. Now we are all individuals, and everyone can create history as soon as they realize it.
It's time for us to admit that there is no point in looking for those to blame for what is happening and that all the problems lie in our heads, in our minds. Experience shows that these problems are very quickly resolved when a person begins to become aware of his psychic, which controls him every minute: desires, thoughts, actions, his words. Why do I want a car for 3 million and do not want to know about the problems of abandoned children? Why do I close my eyes to the problems of juvenile delinquency and indulge my own offspring with pleasure?
Why do some Russian children study in European schools, while others receive a minimum education without the prospect of entering universities in their native country? And what is the difference between children who do not know how to cook their own food and never serve themselves in everyday life, growing up in houses with servants, and surviving children in orphanages with servants? How will their fate be after 18 years? What future do we provide for them by our detachment from their problems? What is the ratio of socially prosperous members of society to criminals in 10-15 years - 20% to 80%?
The orphanage is one of the many problems of society
There are no solutions to a single problem, such as the problem of orphans, corruption or drug addiction. Everything is a single whole, and today everything is decided by each of us in our heads not by some kind of affirmations or meditations, but by awareness of ourselves. Through the opening of his psychic, each person changes the egoistic intention to accommodate more into the intention to be responsible for everything that happens around him, for the mental and physical well-being of all people.
This way out brings a feeling of balance and security for everyone, and along with this feeling, fears and the need to maintain their integrity in an archetypal way disappear: to envy, rob and steal, take offense and revenge, hate and sadist, rape, kill, use alcohol and drugs.
This is how, through everyone, through oneself, all problems are solved. No prisons and revolutions, no violence and bloodshed at demonstrations.
Realizing our natural needs, we begin to feel the inherent in us ability to realize our desires - this is the main mechanism for obtaining pleasure. The more we manage to realize ourselves in a group, in a team, in society, the more pleasure we get. And this pleasure is incomparable with anything.
