Renovation of an apartment - the horrors of our town or an incredible adventure. Part 4
If the household cannot agree on ordinary life matters, then battles over repairs will be inevitable. And everyone will defend their point of view. However, if there is an accurate understanding of the desires of the other person, you can always find a compromise.
Part 1. How to make repairs - on your own or hire a team of workers?
Part 2. How to make repairs and not quarrel
Part 3. How to make repairs and not go broke
How to make repairs so that in six months he does not get tired
We don't always know what we really want. We are greatly influenced by the environment, society, fashion, and the media. It is not surprising that situations arise when, six months after the completion of the renovation, you realize that the result is not the house in which you really would like to live.
That is why it is important to understand at the stage of renovation planning what your true desires and preferences are. Actually, the house is our continuation, the materialization of our vector features, the knowledge of which will help you not only make repairs that will delight you for many years, but in general, always make the right choice in any area of life.
To each his own
It would be ideal if each family member had their own space in the house and managed to organize it the way they like. After all, now is the time of individualism, and everyone wants to realize their desires as fully as possible. But in this case, it would be rather difficult to harmonize such diverse tastes and create a single style.
If the household cannot agree on ordinary life matters, then battles over repairs will be inevitable. And everyone will defend their point of view. However, if there is an accurate understanding of the desires of the other person, you can always find a compromise.
Therefore, let's look at ourselves and our loved ones through the prism of the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, determine the preferences in the style of the dwelling, depending on the vectors most often found in a modern city dweller, try to feel what a person is guided by when choosing a suitable interior.
About flowers and minimalism
As we have already said, a person with a visual vector at a certain level of development will never miss a chance to design an apartment. And this is justified - no one feels color and beauty better than him. He will strive to use different colors in interior design, sometimes quite bright and juicy, to use contrasts, ornaments, drawings.
Particular attention to decor: vases, paintings, photographs, figurines, lamps. All this is extremely important and pleasing to the eye, and without all this the house becomes lifeless and uncomfortable for him. And also visual people are great lovers of fresh flowers. With an emotional deficit, their apartment can turn into a greenhouse.
The complete opposite of this is the owner of the sound vector, who prefers an interior that would not distract him from his thoughts. You can understand him, because more than anything in the world he loves to think.
His favorite style is minimalism. A minimum of color and in general a minimum of things - it is very far from the material, which does not allow him to concentrate on the main thing - the search for the meaning of life. Sometimes it seems that all he needs is a computer and a mattress thrown on the floor. And since you think better in silence and loneliness, your own room with tightly closing doors and soundproofing are vital.
It is also very important for the owner of the sound vector that the windows do not face a noisy street, and that the floors are thick enough not to hear the neighbors.
The sound husband and the visual wife can often have conflicts like: "Again I made the whole window sill with flowers, there is nowhere to sit!" Or: "I asked for ONE-TONE wallpaper, and not so bloody!"
To move or not to move - that is the question
Two more common opposites in the same apartment are the owners of the skin and anal vectors. The leather worker is fast, dexterous, flexible, changeable, adoring everything new. He is closer to the interior, reminiscent of a traveling one, because his ancient ancestor was a hunter and a warrior. He broke off, ran … And in order not to feel sorry to leave his acquired, he chooses furniture that is simple and light, comfortable and functional.
By the way, it’s lightweight so that it’s easy to move. After all, if its properties are not sufficiently realized in work, then rearrangement of furniture can become its hobby. He will move and move in an effort to find the most appropriate and effective option in terms of saving time, movement and energy.
For the same reasons, he will fill his home with household appliances and the latest technological innovations, without which he cannot imagine life. All the newest, the latest model. In design, he prefers high-tech style, in interior decoration he likes to use metal, glass, new materials.
But the owner of the anal vector, on the contrary, does not really like permutations and accepts everything new with hostility. He prefers solid massive furniture that is difficult to move (he achieves this so that no one touches anything). He will have to be persuaded for a long time to buy an induction cooker instead of the usual gas one, and the need to master a lot of new technology can cause him a stupor.
His ancestor guarded the cave, that is, he was a homebody. Therefore, a person with an anal vector loves the house very much, loves to bring comfort and order here. Only here you will see a huge number of boxes and shelves on which things will be neatly and lovingly laid out.
In the interior, he prefers natural tones, especially different shades of brown (beige, terracotta, sand color), as well as natural materials - wood, ceramics. He yearns for life in nature, as his ancestors lived, so he strives to preserve this feeling of natural existence in his home as much as possible.
The principle of life is pleasure
These are just small touches that reveal to us the preferences of a person in arranging a house, depending on his desires, due to his vectors. If we take care of the desires of our loved ones, and they also take care of ours, there is a chance that everyone will like the repair that we will do together.
Man was created to enjoy life. And if he enjoys life, it means that he fulfills his mission. And we get the most real joy only in relationships with other people. Repair is only a form, a temporary situation, and content is connections between people. By uncovering these connections, we uncover the greatest pleasure. Therefore, it depends only on us whether the repair will be a hassle for us or an incredible adventure. As, however, life in general …
