The film "Little Sister". Why it is worth watching with children
The son has many questions. Why were they filming about the war? Was there electricity then? Who did your parents work with? Good questions, good questions. As well as the meanings of the film itself. But first things first. Recently, she has made it a rule to show children films for compassion and read fairy tales about it. So I chose the movie purposefully, to tears. Do you know why?
There were no violent scenes. There are many jokes and national Bashkir flavor. But the daughter cried all the way. I… cried harder.
Recently, she has made it a rule to show children films for compassion and read fairy tales about it. So I chose the movie purposefully, to tears. Do you know why?
The skill of compassion, instilled from childhood, is a child's lifelong immunity to all phobias, fears and even viruses. There is an article on the mechanism of action of such a tool.
Unlike his daughter, the son did not cry, but he had many questions. Different children have different perceptions of both cinema and meanings. And accordingly, upbringing for each must be consistent with his innate characteristics.
The sensual development of a visual daughter needs tears, empathy, all kinds of care for other people. Without this, girls grow up to be hysterical with numerous fears, unable to love, and cannot take place either in a couple or in a profession. And the visual boys too.
The development of the son's abstract sound intelligence is facilitated by films with meaning, where the child can not only experience emotions, but also realize them with his head, put them on the shelves, clearly identify for himself where good and where evil is.
The son has many questions. Why were they filming about the war? Was there electricity then? Who did your parents work with?
Good questions, good questions. As well as the meanings of the film itself. But first things first.
Sister's own bowl of soup
Yamil's father, risking his life, saves a girl from a Ukrainian village. His mother and grandmother, without hesitation, take the orphan into their family in Bashkiria. Even the neighbors come with gifts for her - this was previously accepted in our collectivist-communal mentality.
An example of the attitude of parents to life and people is passed on to children from the cradle, like the language spoken by adults. And it is not surprising that the boy is shown in the film as brave, caring, wise. He has someone to look up to.
When a child grows up in a healthy atmosphere, in a family where the parents themselves have the correct guidelines, then he himself knows what to do. Even at 4-5 years old.
I would like Yamil to become an example for my children. So that they, from a pure heart, could give their bowl of soup to another child, as Yamil gave to his sister.
“Why share. Where is the benefit? - you ask.
In our time, it is customary to guard your own, to be prudent. Kindness is considered the lot of mattresses. But the experience of many generations of people shows us the opposite.
Perhaps, in Soviet times, people were happier precisely because they did not divide into yours and mine, they could overcome their personal greed in the name of more. The pleasure of being accepted among people is the highest pleasure for the human psyche, just not everyone knows about it yet.
When a child shares food, he is perceived by other children as his own. They unconsciously gravitate towards it as a source of security, because food is the primary need, without which a person cannot live.
Such a child will no longer be hostile in the team. Sharing food is one of the basic skills that you need to instill in your child if you want him to be able to fruitfully interact with other people in the future.
The example of parental relationships, our environment, classical literature, and the right films give us a moral imperative. When it is there, there is no longer any need to be forced to share with brothers-sisters. You don't even need to explain it. There is no need to drag the fighting kids away from each other - they quickly grasp everything, absorb the behavior of loved ones like a sponge. They grow up early, in a good way, in proportion to the wisdom of adults, in proportion to the involvement of their elders in the lives of other people. The giving properties of parents are passed on to children. But not with genes, but through their own example.
And although the film "Stepmother" of the Soviet era with Tatyana Doronina in the title role much more realistically shows the psychological situation in the house where the "alien" child appeared, demonstrates the mysterious Russian soul of the heroine brighter, permeated with emotions through and through, but the film "Sister", filmed already in our days, also makes the hearts of viewers flutter with experiences and reflections. Isn't this the main thing?
Childhood cruelty
Why would a little boy be hung on a fence in frost? Just because he "violated" invented boundaries? Or do children so assert themselves at the expense of the weak?
Why so much cruelty in "innocent" minds, read in our article.
It would seem that war is a time when even warring parties unite in the struggle for victory. When everyone has one grief - hunger and the death of relatives.
But in the children's "pack" everything is different. Both then and now children face cruelty. Correct systemic upbringing is a guarantee that your child will not become a victim of the team.
You can learn how to protect your children from injustice and help them adapt in life at the free online training "System Vector Psychology" by Yuri Burlan.
Two families: Bashkir and Ukrainian in the Russian-German war
Only in Russia you can receive an SMS from a Tatar:
"Salam, Iptashlyar, Christ is Risen!"
And on Nauruz get from the Russian:
"Hello, dear ones, bairam boilers bulsyn!"
At Christmas, Russians bake balish because it’s delicious.
At Easter, Tatars paint eggs because the children ask. We have no concept of a Nation.
We are one people of one great country.
Overheard on social media
The film is based on the story of Mustai Karim, my fellow countryman, whose works were included in our school curriculum. The poet's patriotic ideas served as the basis for the moral education of schoolchildren, and to this day they are relevant.
Whether by accident or by design, the filmmakers raised an important point. They showed different peoples of one country, united by a common goal. Where there were no divisions into "Ukrainian" and "Bashkir", where they spoke Russian (those who, of course, were taught to read and write). Where everyone fought for one country, where everyone's life was important.
Russian is not about territory or nationality. It's about the soul. No country in the world unites as many nationalities as Russia.
Even having moved to live abroad, we still remain Russian. This cannot be forgotten and erased. One cannot but be proud of this.
the main role
For me, the final was not the last episode of the film and not even the questions of my kids. And the main actor Arslan Krymchurin from Ufa is a simple boy who grew up in an ordinary family.
This is his debut in a big movie. The film crew was looking for a child for the role of the main character for a long time, but no one came up. Too much acting, but here it was necessary to play the truth.
When, after the film, the hero met the audience in the foyer, this truth was read in his eyes. Human simplicity and no stardom. Modest, capable of giving Arslan and his equally humble father are nearby.
The classmates did not even know with whom they were going to study this year in the first grade. To be on a par with everyone, not to boast of their popularity is an indicator of a boy's development, his moral upbringing.
Arslan Krymchurin is a sound engineer with a visual vector, such people are especially talented, not only in cinema. Konstantin Khabensky possesses similar mental properties. The story of his life can be read here.
Time will tell whether Arslan will continue to act or realize himself in another profession. A child with such an upbringing and mental disposition, developed at the age of seven, is an example of what one should be. Sincere, giving, humble and able to overcome laziness. After all, it is work and a burning desire to realize their dreams that make a person successful.
I recommend watching the film "Little Sister" to all parents and children. It awakens deep feelings and thoughts that are critical to the development of our children. It helps to distinguish between good and bad, not on fictional characters of modern cartoons, but on a living example, very close to us. And therefore understandable, correct, present.
What kind of future do you want for your child? Who is he? Sound, spectator, polymorph? What do you instill in him?
