Postpartum depression: when life has lost its meaning
You feel different from everyone else, strange, perhaps not entirely normal, because all the mothers you know are so happy with the birth of their baby, they are so moved by all his whims, they are happy to do their mother's troubles, they are ready to tinker with the child 24 hours a day, and they don't go crazy with it …
How does postpartum depression manifest itself - apathy, irritability, withdrawal …
Depression after childbirth always catches by surprise, no one thinks about it until the moment when it makes itself felt.
When any desire for communication is lost, every sound annoys, and the newborn does not evoke any feelings except the desire to go away, when every next day painfully resembles the previous one, when you, like a robot, do what you have to, while thoughts only about one thing - to hide with your head and fall asleep … better forever …
Then you understand - something is wrong. After all, it is impossible not to love the desired child, not to enjoy meeting with her husband, not to communicate, as before, with friends. A young woman cannot want everyone, absolutely everything, to be left alone at last, and she could be alone for a little while. Only then do you begin to wonder how postpartum depression manifests itself and, in general, what is postpartum depression, why did it happen to you, and what should you do now?
You feel different from everyone else, strange, perhaps not entirely normal, because all the mothers you know are so happy with the birth of their baby, they are so moved by all his whims, they are happy to do their mother's troubles, they are ready to tinker with the child 24 hours a day, and they don't go crazy with it …
Now what? Time goes by, it only gets worse. Will it always be this way, or will it ever end? In general, how long can postpartum depression last - a week, a month, a year … all your life?
Most often it happens that only real health problems force us to consult a doctor, while regular preventive examinations would allow us to resolve all issues at the stage of the onset of the disease. So it is with psychological health: we begin to understand the nature of our own psyche only when we find ourselves in a negative state and do not know how to get out of it. Rarely does anyone think about depression before childbirth.
Products for depression: a light psychological breakfast, a solid self-discovery for lunch and dinner, mental balance
Postpartum depression is characteristic of the owners of the sound vector. The psychological characteristics of the sound people are such that it is most difficult for them to endure such changes associated with the birth of a child as the absence of a full night's sleep as a way of psychological rest and recovery and the almost complete impossibility of being alone and quiet, reflecting on what is happening. Crying babies just drives the soundtrack crazy.
To this is added the fact that the newly-made mother does not work in her specialty, that is, she does not realize the psychological properties of the sound vector as she did earlier.
Thus, there is absolutely no realization of sound properties, and pressure is present and increases every day, therefore, birth depression is not a problem exclusively for women who have given birth, it is a negative state of sound professionals, the reason for the development of which was the changes in life associated with the birth of a child.
The needs of the sound vector, as a dominant one, require their implementation in the first place, which means that the lack of sound is felt immediately and especially acutely. If the situation does not change from day to day, the sound mother still does not find the opportunity to at least partially satisfy her psychological needs, her condition continues to deteriorate, resulting in a prolonged postpartum depression.
The realization of innate psychological properties is a life-long process. Properties determine our desires, needs, goals, priorities and dreams, the presence of a sound vector determines the type of thinking characteristic of it, which, in turn, is also designed to help in the realization of existing desires. Our entire psychological structure is created to perform a very specific species role, by performing which we bring the biochemistry of the brain into a balanced state. The lack of realization, on the other hand, is felt as suffering (apathy, depression, melancholy, etc.) precisely as a result of an imbalance in the psychological balance.
How to Avoid Postpartum Depression - The Universal Prescription
Any destructive state of the psyche is a threat only until we realize its cause, the true root, the deep source of our problems and unhappiness. Depriving the aura of unexplained such a condition as excruciating postpartum depression, what to do with our psychological health, we immediately understand.
The systemic vision of your own unconscious gives you the opportunity to understand your "oddity", which turns out to be not at all a manifestation of a disease or a deviation from the "norm", but the presence of a sound vector in your psychic. Deeply understanding the reasons for our state, we get the opportunity to satisfy those needs that did not receive their fulfillment before, since self-knowledge for a sound engineer cannot be overestimated, this is his specific role, his goal, this is his desire - to realize the meaning of life, the essence of everything of existence.
The duration of depression is determined for the sound engineer by a period of ignorance, misunderstanding, ignorance of the mechanisms of the psychological nature, the structure of his own unconscious.
Awareness of the ways in which desires arise, the essence of the questions that arose before the sound people throughout their lives, fills the sound voids, solving the urgent problem: how to overcome postpartum depression. It just disappears by itself, there is no room for it. The gaping vacuum of the unrealized properties of the dominant sound vector is filled, allowing the desires of other vectors to manifest themselves.
Along with this comes a feeling of joy from an emotional connection with a beloved toddler - a property of the visual vector, or care and responsibility for a native child wakes up - a property of anality. I would like to immediately combine a daily walk to the park with a trip to the store, and on the way to call my husband, mother and friend - the practical skin vector has stirred. And now they are all visible, as in the palm of your hand, those vectors that make up the personality, reveal character, give birth to simple human desires and joy from their fulfillment, shape fate.
The overwhelming majority of sound mothers ask the question of how to overcome postpartum depression, and they, receiving systemic thinking at Yuri Burlan's training, answer it themselves - to realize the sound vector, at least partially, at least slightly. And it lets go, and it becomes easier, and you can breathe, and even enjoy life, feel like a real mother, beloved wife, Woman.
A lot of reviews of sound mothers who talk or write about themselves, about significant problems before the training and about their resolution after it, speaks, on the one hand, about the high urgency of this problem in modern society, and on the other, about the effectiveness of training in Yuri's system-vector psychology Burlana.
Real women, and not nameless avatars, openly talk about their own feelings, signing with their names, testify to the changes that have occurred in their lives as a result of self-understanding after the training.
Many of them come to training with a specific psychological problem, but receive much more, get a qualitatively new life, relationships, professional realization, no longer noticing when postpartum depression passes, fears go away, resentments dissolve, any hostility to a neighbor disappears. Here are just a few excerpts from the feedback from young mothers who have undergone training:
Having children is a crisis for any person.
This creature, which should bring joy, blew my brain! I didn't know what to do with him. Why is he to me and why is he at all!
Depression. Morning now met the thought "just not this, again life, again to suffer until the next dream …". There was no longer any strength to wait for old age. Children's crying made me run away from the source of the cry, but in contrast to this there was an understanding that this should not be so. I wanted to get rid of the unbearable pain - a cry from outside and a cry from within!
After the training, all the contradictions that tormented me became clear. The feeling that the world can be cognized was not deceiving, and this tool of cognition was provided to us! Now it becomes clearer to me every day, why still live. I have no time to regret life, and I no longer wait for old age, like a vegetable, for this nightmare to end …
Evgeniya Berezovskaya, designer Read the full text of the result
Before meeting with SVP, I had different states of search, but always one - SEARCH. Sects, soft drugs, attempted suicide, various psychological trainings, acceptance of the Orthodox faith. Nothing saved me from the conditions that covered me with a black blanket. There was aggression towards my 1.5 year old child. When my daughter made any high-pitched sound, her ears curled up into a tube, and I just wanted to NAIL her. MADNESS…
During the passage of level 1, the fears of darkness, all evil spirits disappeared. I get tremendous pleasure from communicating with my daughter. Understanding myself and that I am not alone with such a worldview gave a new impetus for new strength, creativity and a desire to live with a full sense of myself and this world. I am changing - the quality of my life is changing.
… not to meet on my way the person who recommended the SVP to me and sent me to the courses, if it were not for Yuri himself and the SVP, I don't know where I would be and how I could harm my child …
Varvara Samokhodkina, economist Read the full text of the result
In order to be a happy mother, it is not at all necessary to go through a lot of trials, to lay down a fraction of health, time or money at the feet of a child, you do not need to endure anything with all your might, expecting that it is about to pass and it will become easier.
You just need to understand yourself, find out why it is so bad, and get answers to the questions: who I am, what I am, what I want, what I need, what drives me, and what exactly I lack for real, complete and all-embracing happiness. Yuri Burlan's system-vector psychology provides all the necessary tools for this.
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