Brilliant music for humanity, forever stuck in the head of a schizophrenic
If a potential great composer was born, why didn't he become one? Why does the music that people should have heard remain inside the genius on the other side of the eardrum? Or no longer a genius? Only he hears her?
The other day in the yard of my childhood I met a tall guy who smiled at me and walked on. It was a neighbor from our house. His hazy gaze struck me as strange. He smiled, but as if not to me, but either through me, or inside himself. "Soundman" - I thought.
I was immediately transported twenty years ago, and my memory drew an excerpt from the childhood of this neighbor. A three-year-old baby is sitting on a bench under an apple tree. Children run around, play, shout. And he, as if nothing had happened, cheerfully dangles his legs and sings the song of Gena the crocodile. A quiet boy with perfect hearing. Of course, the sound engineer.
Later I asked my parents about him, the answer shook me to the core …
It turned out that he is a diagnosed schizophrenic. Lives with his mother, drinks, stays at home.
I couldn’t come to my senses. Again, systemic vector psychology turned out to be right. Schizophrenics are not born, but it is sound people who become, and parents and the environment are most often to blame. One by one, the images of his mother and grandmother began to surface before my eyes. Both are strict, nimble and scandalous persons. Whether there was a father, I don't even remember. But if there was, then definitely not for long.
A kid singing on a bench - who will he be?
A sound can be born in any family. Small, not yet recognized genius. But he can become a musician, artist, writer, scientist, programmer, but you never know who else. But always talented and outstanding. Why, then, are there so many mentally ill people among adult sound professionals? Where are their innate talents?
If a potential great composer was born, why didn't he become one? Why does the music that people should have heard remain inside the genius on the other side of the eardrum? Or no longer a genius? Only he hears her?
Maybe your child is also growing up with a sound vector. Are you sure you know how to develop it correctly and channel talents in the right direction? But there are very simple rules that will help you not to make fatal mistakes in the development of such a child. You will be the mother of a genius!
We always want the best. And we raise children correctly
This is beyond doubt. We want a better life for our children! We do not want to raise sick autists and schizophrenics! We do our best to adapt the child to the realities of life in the ways available to us. Why let your child sit alone in silence and listen to it? Let him go for a walk with peers, run, shout, kick the ball. This is how everyone was raised. Everyone is healthy. Why would he sit at the computer? We didn't sit in our time. We grew up as normal people!
And when the sound child is thinking about something, is busy with something of his own, it is best to make him urgently go to eat, do homework or go outside. You don't need to stare at the monitor for so long. You can shout in your ear if you haven’t heard that lunch has cooled down long ago. And if you add a couple of offensive phrases like “all children are like children, and you are an idiot, who you are like that,” “why did I give birth to you,” then he will definitely come to his senses and go to run into the yard.
People take a lot of false attitudes from their childhood. Since they are what they are, and their parents raised them with such methods, then this is correct. Since I could not sit still and ran all day in the yard and yelled at the top of my lungs, then my child is also like that and should grow up the same way. If I was drawn to endlessly communicate with people, then he should also communicate, and not sit alone and listen to music.
From a capable child to a schizophrenic - a journey up to puberty
When I learned that a little boy with excellent hearing had become a schizophrenic patient, my inner indignation knew no bounds. How is this possible? If it were not for the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, I would have suffered for a long time in conjectures. Now this situation is clearly visible.
The normal development of a child is possible only if his parents themselves are in a healthy mental balance. Mom first. A child under six years old is inextricably linked with her and, as in a mirror, reflects her condition. If the mother is in stress, fears, depression, then there is no need to expect normal development from the child. And since the development goes to the transitional age (puberty), the condition of the mother is especially important all this time.
It seems that was the case with my neighbor. I well remember his twitchy, unbalanced mother, and even with the same grandmother in the bargain. Double unhealthy impact. The absence of her husband's side had a direct impact. She herself had no one to get the feeling of security and safety, so necessary for a woman to pass it on to her child.
As I can see this situation now, the baby was not left alone, pulled and kept telling what to do and what not. Not without humiliation with insults and shouts in falsetto on raised tones. This leads a healthy sound child to autism and schizophrenia.
The owners of the sound vector differ from others in their desire to be in silence and solitude. So they think better. The sensitive ears of a sound person are able to hear many times more, thinner, more accurately than other people. That is why they are the ones who have a subtle sense of music and, like no one else, distinguish a false note from a correct one. Accordingly, sounds that seem normal to others are sometimes unbearable to a sound person.
I don't want to hear anything
If a child with a sound vector does not create an ecological sound atmosphere so that he can listen to the silence in search of sounds, then this usually leads to sad consequences. Constant screaming, slamming doors and dishes, TV running all day, neighbors' puncher, or even crying of younger brothers and sisters lead to a gradual disruption in the assimilation of information from the outside. The child "closes", wanting to stop hearing all these annoying sounds. No, he does not become hard of hearing, and with the same good hearing, he simply ceases to perceive what is happening around.
From the outside it seems that the child is ignoring you, does not want to do what he is told, pretends. But in fact, he loses the ability to learn, communicate and withdraws into himself. Parents begin to speak even louder, yell, connect humiliating meanings to speech. By the way, the effect from them is even worse than just from noise and loud sounds - the brain seems to close itself off from annoying painful meanings. After all, the sound engineer, like no one else, knows how to distinguish meanings, nuances and shades of meanings. Humiliation? Insults? Devaluation? Better not to hear …
Then the scenario looks about the same: loud noises, screaming, humiliation - everything goes on endlessly, goes on increasing, then examinations, diagnoses of developmental delay, pills, ineffectual treatment, in the worst case, schizophrenia …
And in my memory this is the same little boy who smiles and sings, dangling his legs on the bench … I always see him when a young guy walks past with a deep look through me, and the smile on his face persistently makes me think that he hears music that will forever remain only his music …
Everyone according to their abilities, just don't ruin them
This is unheard of! In the twenty-first century, not to understand the differences in the psyche of people around! How can you put on a par with a quiet sound person who does not like communication and an emotional outgoing spectator, demanding the same from them? System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan is finally opening its eyes.
Each person is given a specific role at birth. A child is immediately born with his own characteristics and abilities. You just need to remember that in embryo these abilities are archetypal, that is, they are not yet developed. They are aimed only at survival and preservation of themselves. The task of parents is to develop them to the maximum, so that a person can further realize himself in society. These inclinations must be discerned and correctly directed. Only in this way can he take place in life and become happy. There is no other way.
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan reveals all the natural abilities that people are endowed with. It makes it possible to see them in everyone. To understand how to help a child develop, and not ruin everything that is given by nature.
Do not repeat a mistake that cannot be corrected. Raise your child a healthy genius. Musician or not, it doesn't matter. He will choose himself who he should be, just give him this opportunity. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan will help you with this, register for a free online training at the link …
